My fiancee and I are starting to plan our wedding and were looking for different prices of how much the total wedding costs! HELP! Feel free to categorize it. Thanks so much!!!
It really depends on a number of factors:
* where you live (metro areas usually cost more than suburban and rural areas, and big cities like New York, Los Angeles, Chicago, etc. cost a LOT more than smaller cities)
* how many people you’re inviting (more people = more meals, more seating, a bigger hall or ceremony site, more invites/postage, etc.)
* how formal you want to be (filet mignon on fancy china will cost more than fried chicken at a casual picnic)
Costofwedding.com (or maybe costofweddings.com, I forget) will give you a ballpark price, and a breakdown, if you give your Zip code. Theknot.com also has a budget calculator and some helpful message boards. Offbeatbride.com is a great resource for inspiration if you want something more "you" and less traditional.
Remember that all you NEED is a license, a certified officiant, and however many witnesses your state requires. If you’re having guests, all you NEED to do is seat, feed and entertain them. And you may want to hire a great photographer, just for quality lasting memories as a nice keepsake for youself. You can knock out anything you may not want (favors, formal invites, a garter, a huge cake, a white gown, etc.) – don’t feel pressured to do things you may not like just because they’re "traditional." The media fools brides into thinking things are "traditional" or "necessary" because they want you to spend money.
Don’t be afraid to get creative! Maybe you’d like a nice ceremony in a public park with people seated all around you, followed by a nice dinner at a local restaurant. Maybe you can get a friend ordained to marry you, then go out for pizza and bowling afterward. The sky is the limit.